Confrontations
10 November 2009 22:58![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
prettygoodyearI had a confrontation at work this Monday. I have a colleague there who I can't stand, at all.
Last week something happened and I snapped at her. My boss learned about it and suggested the three of us had a talk. Which was yesterday. All in all my boss totally understood my point of view, and when this colleague was gone he even told me so. Sadly he's too chicken to confront her with her behavior.
Then tonight, at work, another colleague was getting pissed off at something and when he does, he always patronizes his other colleagues by talking loud, almost yelling. At one point I decided to just calmly ask what he was so upset about. At first he didn't understand, then he apologized.
And I find myself expressing myself more and more and I learn that people don't get upset about it at all, but it actually helps to clear the sky. And it helps me to feel a bit better. Or actually a lot.
Ugh...and I've decided to tag all my entries from now on and also want to tag all my older entries. Which will take forever, but eventually will help me to find entries back a lot easier.
Last week something happened and I snapped at her. My boss learned about it and suggested the three of us had a talk. Which was yesterday. All in all my boss totally understood my point of view, and when this colleague was gone he even told me so. Sadly he's too chicken to confront her with her behavior.
Then tonight, at work, another colleague was getting pissed off at something and when he does, he always patronizes his other colleagues by talking loud, almost yelling. At one point I decided to just calmly ask what he was so upset about. At first he didn't understand, then he apologized.
And I find myself expressing myself more and more and I learn that people don't get upset about it at all, but it actually helps to clear the sky. And it helps me to feel a bit better. Or actually a lot.
Ugh...and I've decided to tag all my entries from now on and also want to tag all my older entries. Which will take forever, but eventually will help me to find entries back a lot easier.
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